Beach sex can be so much fun, but there are still a couple of things you need to know before you are ready to try it out. Here, we will go through some of the sex tips essential for this type of action. They will help you prepare and hopefully avoid any type of trouble.
Case the Joint
One of the first things you need to do before you start having sex is to investigate the surroundings. Since it is a public location, you need to ensure that there isn’t anyone nearby that can stumble upon you having sex in the sand.
This includes potential houses, restaurants, or anything where people might be. Ideally, you will check the beach twice — earlier in the day to see whether it is a popular destination and later, when you are ready to start your adventure.
Beach sex can be a lot of fun, but it’s only interesting if you don’t get caught. You could get in a lot of trouble if someone sees you doing it, so it’s always better to be safe.
Bring a Towel
The next thing on your mind should be to bring all the necessary equipment. You know how it is with sand — It’s coarse, rough, and irritating, and it gets everywhere. This is why you should always bring a towel with you.
This way, you will avoid all the sand problems, and you won’t worry about your private parts becoming itchy. Once you get to your perfect location, all you need to do is place your towel in the sand and start having fun.
It is necessary to be comfortable, and the towel is the only way to go. Don’t try to avoid this step since you might need it later.
Bring Another Towel
Do you know what’s better than having a towel? Having two towels. If you’ve read The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, you are already familiar with the importance of towels. But even if you didn’t, you should know how handy they might be.
Firstly, it will make the entire adventure comfortable. But there is so much more to it. In case you are unfortunate during sex and someone sees you, all you need to do is use the towel to cover yourself. Naturally, this is the main reason why you would want to have two towels.
Even if the worst-case scenario doesn’t happen, you can still use the towels to dry yourself after having steamy sex on the beach (not the cocktail).
Wait for Nighttime
While this is a normal thing to assume, we better address it to be safe. If you are looking to have sex on the beach, always do it during the night. When the sun is up, almost all beaches will be filled with people. They will be swimming, catching some sun, or just minding their own business. People might be going to stores, restaurants, and the chances of avoiding them will be almost none.
Once the sun sets, fewer people will be outside, and the number will decrease as time goes by. In the middle of the night, the chances will be in your favor, and you will be able to relax once you get out.
Of course, it is still possible for someone to pass you by, which is why you need towels and a backup plan. Furthermore, the visibility will be even lower if you find a dark place on the beach, which means that even if someone passes by, there is a high chance they won’t be able to tell what’s going on.
The primary idea is to dress appropriately during the day/night. You will need to get to the beach without being suspicious. Assuming you’ll do it during summer, a simple bathing suit will be more than enough. If you think about it, everyone else will wear the same thing, so no one will find it unusual or strange.
Another important thing is that the clothes you wear should be easy to slip into. Once you are done, the best thing is to dress as fast as possible. So try finding a bathing suit that will allow you to easily take it off and back on once the fun is over. That way, you will lower the chances of getting caught.
Make It Fast, but Make It Count
This is a situation where time is important, and you won’t have enough of it to do all the things you like. No, you shouldn’t experiment with sex positions, and foreplay is almost definitely not on the table.
Usually, we would recommend taking your time, focusing on foreplay, and enjoying having fun with your partner. But this is a different situation where people can spot you at any point. This is why you need to make it fast. But this doesn’t mean that it won’t be enjoyable.
The thrill of sex in public can be incredible, and you and your partner will love every second of it. The best option is to get on with the business and finish as quickly as possible. Naturally, we don’t recommend going for the shortest possible sex, but you get the idea. Ideally, it will last long enough to enjoy it and not too long to risk being caught.
When You’re Done, Take a Dip
Once everything is done, all you need to do is slip back into your swimsuit and jump into the water. As you can probably guess, this is the simplest step on the list, and it usually means that you got away with it.
Furthermore, it will feel relaxing, refreshing, and it is an excellent way to clean up after sex. If you bring those two towels, you can use them to dry after swimming and before you are ready to go home.
If you use protection, just be sure to clean up after yourself. Don’t leave anything in the open and carry things with you to the nearest trash bin.